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I hear ya man, and I am on my way to being where you are .
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To those who've divorced.......we all went through similart.........yet NOW you are so "UP" on me?? You mean to tell me you weren't bitter?? Or weren't at some point??
FDu4king Hypocrites
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Maybe so. Tell us about your divorce, and how it affected you??
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okay,..okay,..lemme think back.
As I recall,...I was bitter from about 10AM until 7:30PM.
Then I met this woman at the Congress Lounge and got over it.
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Okay....let's get this back on the right track<grin>.....
Its not the size of the dog in the fight, its the size of the fight in the dog. -- Mark Twain
Part of me lives with the wind in my face, while the other part is barely alive.
--Mary Gauthier
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Good for you guys on the long-term stuff..................you obviously picked "right" the first time.
Unfortunately , I didn't, and don't have pics of some of the images that "stick" in my mind.............
But I'll give it a go..............
Here's my wife hiding over $5000 dollars in prep for our divorce.
Here's her not working, but siphoning the money out of our account. I was a trusting f67king fool. I let her do all the books.
Here's her posing sweetly, with me and the ki8ds, while [bleep] around on me.
Here's her pressuring me for a divorce, right after my mom died a slow long death of cancer. (when she knew I was weakest)
Here's her going to a lawyer when she promised me she would go to counselling.
Here's her Lawyer asking for more child support and spousal support THAN I MAKE.
This is an interesting one. Here is me getting my feet under me and telling her to fuuuuuck off.
Here is her coming to me with problems with the kids.........................again and again..............though she told me that once I was out of the pic "things were perfect"
Here is my kids hugging me, and feeling very comfortable. Loving the easy-going lifestyle I NOW live
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I'm not 100 % sure you can read...........
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To those whop've divorced.......we all went through simialr.........yet NOW you are so "UP" on me?? You mean to tell me you weren't bitter?? I was bitter the first time for a year. The second time for 3 months. The 3rd, 4th,5th and 6th were a no brainer. I have found what I sought, sometimes it just takes practice; you have to know where to keep your hand.
Son of a liberal: " What did you do in the War On Terror, Daddy?"
Liberal father: " I fought the Americans, along with all the other liberals."
MOLON LABE
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First one was a relief. At this time I am neither married nor divorced, my wife (so to speak) lives in Nevada and I live here. We both like it that way.
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That is one handsome man!
The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails. William Arthur Ward
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Isaac, have I told you to f78k off today??
If not, consider yourself told.
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That's a great pic of you and Ned. I don't know him,..but his expression seems to indicate that he's one of them genuinely happy, easy going, gentle spirited kind of people.
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Yes...you told me to f78k off earlier today. I've been told twice.
Actually, been told about 13 times already today. "f78k off Isaac" is kinda my theme song!
Last edited by isaac; 01/31/09.
The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails. William Arthur Ward
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Good news..........the feeling is SO mutual.
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I guess you didn't get the F6ck off part???
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okay,..okay,..lemme think back.
As I recall,...I was bitter from about 10AM until 7:30PM.
Then I met this woman at the Congress Lounge and got over it. Good for you!! I just hope you don't treat your kids with the same disdain.
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Thank you....the 1st intelligent response so far. To those whop've divorced.......we all went through simialr.........yet NOW you are so "UP" on me?? You mean to tell me you weren't bitter?? I was bitter the first time for a year. The second time for 3 months. The 3rd, 4th,5th and 6th were a no brainer. I have found what I sought, sometimes it just takes practice; you have to know where to keep your hand.
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Dude, shut up. You went through a nasty divorce, but your life isn't someone else's life.
I replace valve cover gaskets every 50K, if they don't need them sooner...
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Thank you too. Intelligent response. First one was a relief. At this time I am neither married nor divorced, my wife (so to speak) lives in Nevada and I live here. We both like it that way.
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Good for you guys on the long-term stuff..................you obviously picked "right" the first time.
Unfortunately , I didn't, and don't have pics of some of the images that "stick" in my mind............. Not necessarily. Married a woman in '69. Spent nine years in Hell! Left with only what would fit in a $100 car my neighbor wanted to get rid of and $500 in my pocket. Started driving North and West. Stopped at the Oregon coast. Two years later I married again. Got it right this time. Last thirty years have more than made up for the first mistake. Life goes on. I have not seen or heard form the first wife in 28 years. Don't wish her any harm, just not interested in her garbage any more. Got better things to do. Life is worth living, it is even better with a good wife who is your best friend. You have two choices, Keep living in bitterness and in the past or get over it and move on. Your choice. Enough said.
The first time I shot myself in the head...
Meniere's Sucks Big Time!!!
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Consider this 14.......... Yes...you told me to f78k off earlier today. I've been told twice.
Actually, been told about 13 times already today. "f78k off Isaac" is kinda my theme song!
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